How do you know if you are in love? What are the 5 Spiritual Love Signs That You Are Really In Love?
Love Signs 1 – It feels easy
So often we get into a relationship for the wrong reasons and invariably there are constant questions or considerations that arise. Am I really attracted to them? Do I want to be “off the market” right now? Do I really want to introduce this person to my family and friends? Does he or she make enough money? We think and say things like, “We’re getting older, after all, we have to think of the future.” Is this person more trouble than they are worth? Can I live with this or that aspect of their personalities? When you are in love, there are no contingencies, only mutual respect.
In love, these questions don’t cross our minds, at least not enough to deter us from the person’s company. There is a feeling of unity with him or her, that any obstacles can be overcome and that trust is possible, even for those of us that have trouble trusting others. You seem to simply flow with each other’s energy, and don’t question the other’s devotion to you. In short, you feel joy!
Love Signs 2 – You are wildly attracted to the person
I’m not talking about superficial attraction, being attracted simply on merit of the person’s beauty, I’m talking about a feeling of wanting to connect with the person so fully, that physical contact is electric! The yearning to simply touch the person’s hand, or be in their company provokes a “lust” in you the likes that you have rarely, if ever, felt with another person. It’s an energy that you feel whether the person looks like what they consider to be their worst, or is dressed to the nines!
Love Signs 3 – You can communicate effortlessly
There is a type of communication that happens when you feel that what you say is felt, not just heard, by the other person and that they want nothing more than to know you, understand you and support you in everything you do. You can sense and feel their respect for you and admiration for who you truly are, mind, body and soul and that there is no judgement, no secrecy and a desire to make the other person feel safe and loved.
Love Signs 4 – You are not afraid
When you are in love, you don’t fear unfavorable outcomes. You are positive! You are not wrought with feelings of pessimism or doubt, you don’t struggle to make the pieces come together, you don’t feel that you may be hurt by the other. This does not mean that you do not have a realistic view of life, or do not know that things happen that change the course of our paths, but simply that this feeling does not consume you, or make it difficult to carry on with the relationship without fear.
Love Signs 5 – There is no sense of urgency
Often when we think we have found the one, we are hurriedly preparing to build a life immediately so that the relationship doesn’t “go away” or find another voice. When we are in love we are not overwhelmed with feelings of consummation, or to marry or live together immediately in lieu of all the things that should happen prior to that which will make the foundation of permanency all the more valuable, earned and precious.
practice radical self-love.
If we all could treat ourselves with the same loving kindness that we would a small child or a puppy, we would find that many of our relationships drastically change. When we love ourselves fully it means we accept ourselves, warts and all.
We must stop ripping apart our thighs, our penchant for talking fast, or the fact that we do not look like the models in the magazines (little secret: neither do the models resemble their photos!) and instead gift ourselves the sacred love that our bodies, minds, and hearts have seen and done some serious ‘ish and should be loved and respected. When we do this we will begin to make choices which reflect this love. We begin to see our relationships mirror this sacred love. In order to receive healthy, true and lasting love we must first show it to ourselves, amply.
I didn’t write this but enjoy peace xx